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Long distance while one of us is in DFW: Is it worth it?

My partner got a job offer in Austin. I can't leave DFW because of my job (in-person, no remote option) and my family is here.

• 3-3.5 hour drive each way
• $60-80 in gas round trip
• Or $120-250 flights (DAL to AUS on Southwest)

How to read DFW crime maps and what the data actually means

Crime maps are powerful tools but most people misread them. Here's how to use them correctly.

• Crime type matters. A neighborhood with 50 property crimes and 0 violent crimes is very different from one with 20 violent crimes and 10 property crimes.
• Time of day matters. Entertainment districts show high crime at 1-3 AM. During normal hours they may be perfectly safe.
• CrimeMapping.com

Brisket snobs are killing BBQ culture

BBQ is supposed to be fun. Community. Gathering around a pit with a beer and eating good food. Somewhere along the way it turned into a competition over who has the most opinions about bark, smoke rings, and post oak.

Side hustles that actually work in a Texas city

I need extra income. Not passive income guru stuff. Not dropshipping. Not "invest in real estate with no money down." Real things that real people are doing to make extra money.

Property tax protest -- did anyone actually get theirs lowered?

First time protesting my property tax appraisal this year. The county raised my value by $35K which makes zero sense because nothing about my house or neighborhood has changed.

DFW library systems: More than just books

DFW libraries are criminally underused. Here's everything they offer.

• 29 locations across Dallas. Source: dallaslibrary.org
• Free: Books, ebooks (Libby app), audiobooks, DVDs, magazines, newspapers
• Free: WiFi, computer access, printing (limited pages)

Is now actually a good time to buy in Texas?

Interest rates are still elevated. Prices haven't really come down. Insurance costs are through the roof — literally, because of all the hail and storm claims.

Best vets in DFW by area: Community recommendations

Finding a vet you trust is like finding a good mechanic — once you find one, you never leave.

• Uptown Animal Hospital — 3303 McKinney Ave. Dr. Tran is amazing. Fair pricing, doesn't push unnecessary procedures. Source: Google Reviews 4.8/5.
• Lakewood Animal Hospital — 6447 E Mockingbird Ln. Been in the neighborhood forever. Old school care, reasonable prices.
• CityVet (multiple) — walk-in friendly, open late and weekends. Good for routine care. Source: cityvet.com

DFW Craigslist ticket scam for Cotton Bowl / AT&T Stadium events — buyer beware

With the big game this weekend, scam ticket listings are flooding Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace.

• Tickets priced 30-50% below face value
• Seller claims they "can't go anymore" — sick, work conflict, etc.
• They send screenshots of tickets that look real but are duplicated

Is Buc-ee's actually good or just a tourist trap?

Every time I stop at Buc-ee's I spend $60 on stuff I don't need. The beef jerky wall is mesmerizing. The bathrooms are immaculate. The brisket sandwich is solid.

I've seen 100+ shows in DFW. The venue matters more than the artist. Fight me.

Hot take but I genuinely believe this. A B-tier band at The Kessler is a better night than an A-tier band at American Airlines Center. Here's my venue ranking after years of going out in this city.

Moving from apartment to house: what nobody tells you in TX

Spent 6 years in apartments. Just bought a house. Here's what nobody warned me about.

• Lawn care in Texas heat is a part-time job. Mowing every week in summer. Watering constantly. The grass will die if you look at it wrong in August.
• Property tax hits different when you write the check yourself. In an apartment it's hidden in rent. Now I see the $8K bill annually.
• Everything that breaks is YOUR problem. AC went out the second month. $400 repair. In an apartment I would've called maintenance.

What's actually hiring around here that pays decent?

I've been applying for weeks. All the Indeed postings are either scams, ghost listings that have been up for 6 months, or they want 5 years of experience for $18/hour.

Rental scam alert: Fake landlord listing real houses on Zillow and Apartments.com

A sophisticated rental scam is targeting DFW renters. Scammers are listing REAL houses for rent that they don't own, collecting deposits and first month's rent, then vanishing.

• They find houses that are legitimately for sale on Zillow/Redfin
• They create a rental listing for the same property at a believable price
• They show the property using a lockbox code or open house times

HOA sent me a violation for my trash can being visible. I'm done.

Got a letter from my HOA. Violation: "trash receptacle visible from the street." My trash can was next to my garage. Not in the yard. Not on the sidewalk. NEXT TO MY GARAGE on the side of my house.

Landlord won't fix AC in July. What are my rights?

AC has been out for 4 days. It's over 100 degrees outside and my apartment is hitting 90+ inside. I've called maintenance three times. They came once, said they "ordered a part," and I haven't heard back since.

Best sweet tea in town?

I'm on a mission to find the best sweet tea around here. Not the bottled stuff. Not the lightly sweetened "is there even sugar in this" version. I want proper Texas sweet tea where you can feel the sugar dissolving your teeth.

Remote work in Texas -- anyone else never going back to office?

I've been fully remote for 2 years. My company just announced a "hybrid" return — 3 days in office. Which means I now need to commute 45 minutes each way, pay for gas, buy lunch, and wear pants.

Best affordable areas that aren't sketchy?

Looking for a new apartment or maybe renting a house. Budget is around $1,200-1,400 for a 1BR or small 2BR. I know that's tight.

Interview red flags from Texas employers

I've been job hunting for a few months and the number of sketchy interviews I've had is wild. Compiling a list so others know what to watch for.

• "We're like a family here" = you will have no boundaries and be guilt tripped for using PTO
• Won't give a salary range = it's low and they know it
• "We work hard and play hard" = 60 hour weeks and a pizza party once a quarter

Just got laid off. Tech industry is brutal right now.

Got the email Wednesday morning. My entire team — 14 people — eliminated. 2 years at the company. Good performance reviews. Didn't matter.

Teachers in Texas -- how are y'all surviving on that salary?

Genuine question, no disrespect intended. I looked up the average teacher salary in Texas. It's around $57K. In a state where rent is $1,500+, property taxes are insane, and everything keeps going up.

Best mechanic in town that won't rip you off?

I need a trustworthy mechanic. Not a dealership — they quoted me $900 for brake pads and rotors on a midsize sedan. I can buy the parts for $200.

Who has the worst drivers -- your city or the one next door?

Every city in Texas thinks the city next to them has the worst drivers. It's like a universal Texas experience.

How do adults actually make friends in a new city?

Moved here 8 months ago for work. Know my coworkers and that's about it. I'm in my early 30s. No kids. Don't go to church.